A Prayer for Samuel

21 11 2008

I have been taking some songs and hymns that I have heard and changing the words to reflect something true about Anna.  Today we sang a song in chapel at school that did not seem to fit Anna.  It was too much based in what is happening today in the world to have any applicability with Anna now that she has died.  But as I sang the words, I was struck by how much I wanted them to be true of our son, Samuel.  The song is “Speak, O Lord” and I have altered the words below to be a prayer for Samuel.  Read them carefully and see if you cannot also sing this song for your own children.

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Reformation Day 2008

1 11 2008

While everyone else enjoyed Halloween, we maintained our alien status by celebrating Reformation Day.  On October 31, 1517, Martin Luther nailed his 95 theses to the door of the Wittenberg Church in Germany setting off what became known as the Protestant Reformation and reclaiming a biblical, evangelical faith.

Our son dressed as the great reformer, Martin Luther.

In the first picture you can see him with his 95 theses tucked into his belt.  On the other side is his hammer.  (We borrowed a real hammer for the occasion, but Samuel could not resist the urge to smash the infidels on the head, so we opted for the less risky cardboard model.  For those who care, it came from a Tony Boombozz pizza box–originally containing the best pizza in Louisville.)

The second picture shows him nailing his document to the door of the Wittenberg Church, or as we like to call it, our apartment.

From there we went to an event at our church.  When asked who he was, many realized he was a monk.  More than a few guessed that he was Friar Tuck.  After being shown the scroll in his pocket, those who understood knew the truth.  The best response came from one little girl who, after being told that Samuel was dressed as Martin Luther, ran to tell her friends to come see Samuel.  “He’s dressed as Martin Luther King, Jr.,” she excitedly told everyone.

Anna loved dressing up.  We agreed that had she been with us she would have wanted to be Luther’s wife, Katherina von Bora.  It was difficult seeing all of the girls dressed up, knowing that Anna would have loved the evening.





The Little Girl in Louisville, part 1

27 10 2008

We knew pretty early on that Anna was a different child than Samuel.  We never did figure out if it was the difference between first and second children or the difference between boys and girls.  I am sure all of these factors combinde together to create the personality of each person.  But whatever the various factors it is God who works them all together to make each person unique.

Samuel and Anna were certainly different from one another.  While Samuel was headstrong, Anna was compliant.  While Samuel was excitable, Anna was calm.  While Samuel was loud, Anna was quiet.  But they were not only different; they were complementary.  When Samuel led, Anna would follow.  If he wanted to play a game, Anna was ready.

At times it perhaps went to an unhealthy point.  There were times that Anna would sit down to play with some blocks or a puzzle.  She would find her spot.  She got all of her things out of a toy box and had them all in order ready to go.  Then Samuel might come by and say, “Hey Anna, can I play with those blocks?”  Wordlessly, Anna would hand everything over to Samuel, smiling all the while.  She seemed content that she could so easily make him happy.

Anna adored her big brother.  We have a video of the kids playing ring-around-the-rosie in our kitchen.  They must have been about four and two years old at the the time.  Sam was definitely the leader as he led the song, looked into the camera, and at the final “we all fall down” would pull Anna down to the floor with him.  Anna would never say a word until the end when she would stand up and say, “Do it again.”  And Sam would faithfully get up and do it again.  All the while Anna would just smile her big open-mouthed smile and stare into her brother’s face.  They played the game over and over again and Anna’s gaze never left her brother.  As Anna grew older she displayed a capacity for a deep, compassionate love.  Looking back we can see that love shown even when she was a toddler.





The Bible as the Word of God, or, What Should We Read to the Children for Devotion?

9 10 2008

Timberley and I have always tucked in our children at night.  The shape of that routine has taken various forms over the years, but as the children grew older we developed a fairly stable routine.  After cleaning up from dinner we might gather for reading a book aloud as a family or a game of some sort.  Around 7:30 we had our devotion time that included Bible reading and family prayer.

 

Several years ago the children made a request for our Bible reading.  I think Samuel initiated it, but Anna was right behind him.  Samuel came to me and said, “Daddy, I think we ought to change the way we read the Bible for devotion time.”

 

“What should we do?” I answered.

 

“Well, when we have our devotion now we read little pieces from all over the Bible.  But if what you say is true, that the Bible is the word of God, then we should start at the beginning and read through the whole book.”

 

I could not argue with his logic, but was a little unsure how it would work out.  I agreed.  That night at bedtime I read the first chapter of Genesis to them.  They sat with wide eyes and took it all in as if it were a fairy tale.  I promised that the next night I would read chapter two.

 

The next three nights we read about the creation of man in chapter two, the first sin in chapter three, and the first murder in chapter four.  When I finished reading chapter four to the children I told them that the next night I would tell them the story of Noah and the ark in chapter six, since chapter five was simply a genealogy and it might be pretty boring for devotion.  Both children bolted upright.  “No, no!  You have to read chapter five.  You have to read all of it.”

 

“But it’s just a list of names and how long each person lived.  Don’t you want to hear about Noah’s ark?”

 

“But Dad,” Samuel interjected, “Isn’t all of it God’s Word?”

 

“Yes.”

 

“Then we need to read chapter five.”

 

I can still remember their faces the next night as the children lay in their beds and I read from Genesis five.  They were not listening excitedly, as if I were reading a children’s story, but there was a seriousness to the night’s devotion.  When I was done I prayed with the kids.  I kissed them good night.  Samuel simply said, “Thank you, Dad,” and turned over to go to sleep.





Some odd pictures

27 09 2008

Here is a photo of Anna in a stand of bamboo behind our house.

Anna and Sam in a kind of “Indonesian Gothic.”